婚礼歌手

终于看完了《婚礼歌手》发现自己还是热衷于爱情喜剧的~热衷于那种像是品尝奶糖一般温馨甜蜜的感觉~以前听闻我们adam是很厉害的创作歌手 今天终于见识到了~当他在飞机上弹着吉他为爱人献唱时 我已经哭的一塌糊涂了~只因这份爱情太迷人太完美~~自己又一次被打动 心脏加速跳动难以平息了~嘎嘎

~当我在10个月前开始疯狂的寻找他的电影时 我就知道我被他深深吸引了~注定摆脱不了他的魅力 发下花痴吧 世间怎会有如此可爱的男人......

关于内容我不愿多说 如果你决定看这部电影 记住 带上你一颗感伤的心 对真爱的一片赤诚~

那么便可以深刻的感受音乐与爱情的水乳交融~

片尾 我们的男主角唱了一首歌 名字应该叫做“grow old with you ”

歌曲太美太美~~ SO 牢记它的旋律 时常挂在嘴边 轻声哼唱

I wanna make you smile whenever you're sad
当你忧伤时候我要让你欢笑


Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
当你关节痛时我会带你到处走走


All I wanna do
我想要的只是


is grow old with you
和你一起慢慢变老


I'll get you medicine
when you tummy aches
当你肚子痛时我会为你拿药


Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
如果壁炉坏了我会做个新的


Oh It could be so nice growing old with you
哦~和你一起慢慢变老该是多么美妙


I'll miss you kiss you
我会想念你,亲吻你


Give you my coat when you are cold
你冷的时候我会将我的外套给你


I’ll need you feed you
需要你,满足你


Even let ya hold the remote control
甚至受你摆布...遥控...


So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
让我在厨房的水槽里洗盘子


Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
当你喝得太多时把你放到床上


I could be the man who grows old with you
我可以成为与你携老的男人


I wanna grow old with you
和你一起慢慢变老

   After Robbie was abadoned by Linda at the wedding,he laid in the bed in the basement,and he said to Sammy:"I don't have anything to offer."
   Then he met Julia.He finally got something to offer to that girl.Actually,Robbie was helping other people in town all the time.He is a wedding singer,who bring joy to guests;He has a dream as a rock star and is talented at writting songs.
   He is an orphan.Mom and Daddy left at ten.He has been hurt.But he is the one who always make other people happy.I think that's noble. Many people who got hurt grow to be cynical and defended,self-involved,and lose faith in love. Robbie thinks in a positive way,and he still hold hope for true love,before the wedding day.He got mad,sad,felt deeply betrayed,and began to doubt himeself as a wedding singer and even a helper without any payment. We know how much love can hurt."Take an instance,me." When Robbie sang that angry song"I used to love but it was a joke and I want a bullet shot in my head"in the hall in front of Julia,I think that's the moment Julia fell in love with him.So did I.I usually into guys with hurt and a high-esteem.I guess that's the self-rescue part,you will cure by rescuing somebody else hurting. Robbie met Julia,who looked him in the eye that we all read the message"You are so special to me".And Robbie went to pursue Julia at the last moment.
   I think that's the difference between men and women.When a man get hurt,he will move to save another girl in need,so as to cure himself and felt his worth once more.But when a woman gets hurt,she wouldn't get cure by loving another man,c'z that's not appropriate for a moman to be active and take into the" rescuer" role.She is espected to stay there in the blue and wait someone to show up and save her. It's getting helpless.And I hate myself.Anyway,Julia is not the girl like me.I won't let my life depend on someone else to save me,which by the way,romance only happens in the movie.
   I'm not Julia,and I can't be Robbie who meets Julia and be treasured and he earned his welfare by taking some moves.He is a man.That's what man should do.I don't know if I ever gonna meet some guy who is attracted by my loneliness and misery because there's anything else I can offer,to the opposite sex. I have a kind of pretty face,and a not so perfect body,a great listen when I concentrate,a hard-working student but that ambitiousness is not appreciated for most men. I learned self-doubt after the hurt by love,and become someone who is not me.And now I don't like the way I am.I had a fierce fight in the inner world every moment in the past few days.I even despise myself for thinking so negtively.Is there anyone who can understand the complicated contradiction I've been suffering?
   You might disgrace me but I'm the one losing faith in true love.I believe there's true love,I just don't believe that would happen on me.I'm also cursed for not helping other people,but I got my own ways to get out,by pulling myself higher and higher.A tough way,but at least it works some time.It isn't working now,and I'm back to that needy,desperate coward again.Hi me,all I'm thinking is that I don't deserve to have a guy to treasure me,looking me in the eye like saying"You are the most beautiful thing in the world.",someone who holds me and say"everything will be allright." I would like to do anything for him,too.But no,there's none,all me.I'm a loser.That's what they called. If love was red,I must be color-blind.
   There is tons of great speech you can throw on me,like"if you try you will find",or "don't feel inferior,you are not that bad",or"be yourself and good things will follow"...that doesn't help really.
    I'm going to live,whatever.Whether to success or lose in the end,it won't improve anything to self-esteem.I still gonna to abase myself for such struggle in vain.For not feeling confident in prior,for having so much contrary thoughts in head.That's me,and that's not cool.
    Perfectism,they call it.It rules all over me.Very mean superego.Mother never loved her much and daddy never kept in touch,that's why she shies away from human affection.
    I'm the kid in emptiness,like Robbie.He finds away by writting songs and helping people.I find my way lifting up.We are both innocent children abandoned by parents.Why do they do that to us? I know I'm not the only one,and there are more even worse. The absense of parents definitely effects on children's development,and I don't know how many of them has made a way out.I still went back to the homeless little girl sometimes.
    Can I help ? Maybe some day I will.I will.
Be careful,don't be hurt by love.But sometimes it's just destiny.You can't run off,it will chase you.Eat you in and out.
    "I'm so in love with you."Wish someday I could say that.Wish I have the strength to make it till that day.

亚当·桑德勒和德鲁·巴利摩尔1998年的初次合作，因对《初恋五十次》印象良好，故而一直想看。亚当·桑德勒那时看上去还想走英俊小生路线，巴利摩尔不好看，胜在甜美可爱。情节，反正就是浪漫轻喜剧，没有特别好看也没有特别不好看。唯一不明白的是，为什么1998年的电影看上去像80年代的影片，是否电影公司压箱底作品被翻出来上映呢？不知道。

这是一部轻松主题的电影，关于如何将一个简单的爱情故事拍的新鲜而动人，本片具有相当的参考价值。领衔主演的是Adam Sandler和Drew Barrymore，他们的精湛演出使本片在无数以婚礼为背景的好莱坞影片中显得别具风味。而且由于影片内的场景都取自我们熟悉的八十年代，片中再现和戏仿了许多八十年代常见的
看这部电影的时候,是该片上映的第十年头,看到亚当的发型第一个反应是这是哪个年代的?抱着这是八十年代的片笃定的信念看完了电影(没想过这是98年的电影),先觉得奇怪那时候亚当和德鲁就这么老了?然后又受里面的美式特有的温馨吸引,觉得这很动人

平凡人的生活总有种种不如意，所幸总有否极泰来的时刻，蓦然回首便会发现一直陪伴在身边的知己才是自己的Mr. Right，有情人终成眷属地欢喜收场。
对这样的“小幸福”电影不须苛求太多，只要电影结束时满心温暖甜蜜便算合格了。The Wedding Singer显然达到了这样的要求，虽然影片末尾在飞机上深情献唱的情节让人觉得有点眼熟又老土，但还是忍不住狠狠感动了一把，bs我自己……
其实喜欢这部影片的主要原因还是因为喜欢男女主角。 Adam Sandler是为数不多长得不帅还能把我这个色女迷得七荤八素的男演员，他总是扮演傻得冒泡又可爱得冒泡泡的人物：笨拙、羞涩、质朴、善良，每次看到他憨憨的笑容都有点小小心动，难道我有郭靖情结？？？
至于Drew Barrymore更是我的all time NO.1,爱死了她如阳光下雏菊般的笑容，草莓般甜美的面容和丰盈柔媚的身材。因为她在影片中的造型，我多年来一直在找那样一条小碎花的及膝连衣裙....

让人相当无语的一部片子，温情一般般，浪漫谈不上，也没有任何搞笑的成分，情节僵硬，大家都像没进入状态一样,包括Ross的老妈，汗。而且看到一半才发现原来这部片以前竟然看过，能让人这么没有印象，无语。如果这部片是为了6年后两人再次合作的《初恋50次》预热，那没话说。